Amanda Todd Suicide: Police Will Investigate

Posted By: Larry Fedoruk · 10/15/2012 8:00:00 AM

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AMANDA TODD STORY

RCMP in the lower mainland of B.C. will undertake a full investigation into the suicide death of bullied teen Amanda Todd. Amanda, 15, was found dead in her home Wednesday.

Though her story has been much told over the last few days, her bullying troubles began two years when she began using a webcam with friends. A boy she met online talked her into flashing her breasts, and it was days later that police knocked on her door to tell her that picture was posted on the internet.

RIP AMANDA TODD

It seems shortly after Amanda often appeared depressed and suffering from anxiety. Escape attempts from her personal hell included substance abuse and cutting herself. She was bullied online and in real life. She changed schools but was beaten up by a group of teens right in front of her new school. When suicide by drinking bleach was attempted, kids online said it was too bad she wasn't dead.

On September 7 she uploaded a video describing her ordeal. 5 weeks later she was dead.

Although difficult to prove, there are areas in the Criminal Code that could result in charges for those involved in the bullying. Certainly assault charges could result from the physical beating she took. Libel is a possibility. Distributing pictures of an underage girl exposing her breasts could also bring criminal prosecution, but it is all very difficult and in some ways, new territory for police and the judicial system.

As people mourned and commented online about this senseless loss, many people could not simply fathom how anyone could be that cruel and insensitive. I would rank among those people. It is not my function to assign blame, but it would seem a lot of people dropped the ball here: People who don't know the difference between bullying and playful teasing. People who didn't realize this young girl was hurting deeply. People who haven't been taught about human kindness. The list goes on.

I hope the police are able to charge some of them. There has to be responsibility and accountability for lives so callously tossed away. They have set up a special email account for the public's help. AmandaTODDinfo@rcmp-grc-gc.ca.

We use the term rest in peace all the time, but I mean it from the bottom of my heart. Rest in the peace that eluded you in life Amanda. Some good may come of this...we can only hope. LEAVE COMMENTS.

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  1. DougW_8649 posted on 10/13/2012 03:51 PM
    RIP Amanda! :( Very sad & tragic story. Unfortunately, from my perspective, the majority of people are insecure & judgmental. So insecure that the only way to make them feel better about themselves is to knock others down. It starts as teenagers & most people do not grow up; they do not change their immature thinking. I have learned to live with a basic thought that if have created a problem in your head or dislike me for some imaginary reason, your opinion has less value than a cow pie & I really do not care what your opinion is. It took me until my 30s to discover this line of thinking. Poor Amanda still might have had to go another 15-20 years she accepted this line of thinking as well. :-( Seems Amanda wanted to please others & just got hurt in return. Going through life being selfish isn't right but, there are limits to being unselfish, too. Take care all & stop judging!!!
  2. Larry Fedoruk posted on 10/13/2012 04:42 PM
    Thank you Doug. I appreciate the sentiments.
  3. TaraF posted on 10/13/2012 08:53 PM
    This is just incredibly sad. No one should ever be made to feel like this and people should not be allowed to hide behind their computer screens and think that it gives them carte blanche to do and say whatever they want without consequence. The system failed Amanda many times along the way and I hope that it doesn't continue to fail her in her death. I hope she is now at peace and can finally rest. But it still remains a horrible end that this should not have needed to come to.
  4. Larry Fedoruk posted on 10/14/2012 04:16 PM
    Totally agree TaraF. Well said.
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